New Year’s Eve is a time for looking back at the past, and looking forward to the new year. It’s a time to reflect on the changes we want to make and resolve to follow through on those changes. It’s either start doing something good or stopping doing something bad.
According to Wikipedia, the ancient Babylonians made promises to their gods at the start of each year that they would return borrowed objects and pay their debts. The Romans began each year by making promises to the god Janus, for whom the month of January is named. In the Medieval era, the knights took the “peacock vow” at the end of the Christmas season each year to re-affirm their commitment to chivalry. At watchnight services, many Christians prepare for the year ahead by praying and making these resolutions.
There are other religious parallels to this tradition. During Judaism’s New Year, Rosh Hashanah, through the High Holidays and culminating in Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement), one is to reflect upon one’s wrongdoings over the year and both seek and offer forgiveness. People may act similarly during the Catholic fasting period of Lent, though the motive behind this holiday is more of sacrifice than of responsibility, in fact the practice of New Year’s resolutions partially came from the Lenten sacrifices. The concept, regardless of creed, is to reflect upon self-improvement annually.
I, for one, gave up making New Years resolutions a long time ago. One year I resolved to lose 10 pounds (20 would have been too unrealistic) by Memorial Day, that didn’t happen. Other years I vowed to save more money, get more organized, etc. Nope, epic fail each year.
Here are a few of the top New Years Resolutions
1. Lose Weight
2. Quit smoking
3. Quit drinking
4. Save more money
5. Get more organized
6. Read more books (the hardback kind)
8. Take a really nice vacation
9. Show more kindness to others
10. Spend more time with family.
Share your New Years resolutions with us (I’m sure there are some good ones out there) and let us know how you plan to ring in the New Year.